I had a friend over this evening who has been widowed for a long time -- 15 years or more and she had been on the dating scene for many of those years. While I am single, I do not consider myself to be "on the dating scene" -- whatever that is. She advised me to start practicing and to acquire the correct ensembles which includes a day time bra and a night time bra. WTF!!!! I wear bras, but they are bras to hold my breast in place -- end of story. She made dating sound like a big huge penance, rather than a pleasurable experience of getting to know someone who you kind of like and would like to get to know better. I think I should set my sights on becoming a nun.